<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059</id><updated>2012-02-16T12:32:34.917Z</updated><category term='Right Distance'/><category term='On the Importance of Community'/><category term='Postmodernism'/><category term='Rituals'/><category term='Individual/Whole'/><category term='I: Jigsaw'/><category term='I: Pyramid'/><category term='The Act'/><category term='On the Value of Stating the Obvious'/><category term='Vessels and Cargo'/><category term='I: Compass'/><category term='Transformer - Art Gallery In Disguise : The Contemporary Art Gallery as Breaking Machine'/><category term='Assume a Position'/><category term='A Familiar Story'/><category term='On the Uses of Heroes'/><category term='Balance'/><category term='Mind/Matter'/><category term='LP'/><category term='Culture Clash : When the contemporary art gallery fails to be engaging'/><category term='Approaching Conceptual Art'/><category term='Distance'/><category term='Community'/><category term='Games'/><category term='The Whole'/><category term='Devotion'/><category term='I: Full Circle'/><category term='I: Line and Circle'/><category term='Climbing'/><category term='Ownership'/><category term='Scale'/><category term='I: Concentric Circles'/><category term='I: Solid and Liquid'/><category term='I: Return to Ground'/><category term='Playing the Art Game'/><title type='text'>Forever Becoming</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>448</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8728947636220324487</id><published>2012-02-09T20:18:00.007Z</published><updated>2012-02-10T09:06:03.117Z</updated><title type='text'>Artist / Citizen</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 1958 I wrote the following:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'There are no hard distinctions  between what is real and what is unreal, nor between what is true and  what is false. A thing is not necessarily either true or false; it can  be both true and false.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe that these assertions still  make sense and do still apply to the exploration of reality through art.  So as a writer I stand by them but as a citizen I cannot. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;As a citizen I  must ask: What is true? What is false?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Harold Pinter]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Nobel Lecture, 'Art, Truth &amp;amp; Politics'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What does this time demand of us?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beyond the borders of our own world. The world that grinds on around us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Objective reality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What does it demand of us?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is happening on the larger scene? In the bigger picture? What is going on in the world and how does it impact on us?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As individuals we - as we are constantly reminded - have many rights. We have the right to enjoy our lives, to embrace our individuality; to explore ourselves; to find our potential. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You only have one life, so live it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But always this microcosm - our own little world - must be balanced with the larger picture. Because, like it or not, it is within the larger picture that we all have to fit. It is the land upon which we stand. If it shifts and moves then our houses - with their bright walls, and individual flourishes - will come crumbling down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So we must always be asking: what does this time demand of us? Is there a quake coming? Must we take a break from papering the walls and prepare for it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At one point the larger picture may have demanded that we question everything; that we push boundaries and shatter paradigms. Maybe this was the project of post-modernism, and maybe it served a useful purpose - not necessarily for the individual, but for the larger picture. Maybe a spot of post-modernism was what was needed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The citizen was required to become an artist; to explore their assumptions; to poke and prod and push.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The beautiful landscape wasn't good enough anymore. Maybe it represented complacency, a stifling status quo. And so it needed to be undermined, subverted. Nothing was as it seemed. Solid became liquid. Things melted into other things. Male became female, female male.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And now it is the right of every individual the poke and prod and push their own boundaries. Or at least to go through the motions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;But what does this time demand of us?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where once the citizen was impelled to become the artist, now, perhaps, the tables have turned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There are too many artists. And not enough citizens.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is long overdue that the artist once again become the citizen. That we begin to solidify, to choose a path; to draw our boundaries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To say: this is true. And this is false.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are lost within our post-modern playground. We don't know which way is up anymore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is time to grow up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/05/nobody-knows-and-nobody-can-ever-know.html"&gt;Nobody knows, and nobody can ever know&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/07/perils-of-radical-subjectivity.html"&gt;The perils of radical subjectivity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/02/individual-villager-balance.html"&gt;Individual + Villager = Balance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/12/rights-and-responsibilities.html"&gt;Rights and Responsibilities&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/08/living-in-post-modern.html"&gt;Life Amongst the Rubble&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/07/walk-straight-line.html"&gt;Walk a Straight Line&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8728947636220324487?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8728947636220324487/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2012/02/artist-vs-citizen.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8728947636220324487'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8728947636220324487'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2012/02/artist-vs-citizen.html' title='Artist / Citizen'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8586837702970043448</id><published>2012-02-08T22:02:00.008Z</published><updated>2012-02-08T22:30:52.518Z</updated><title type='text'>Eruption!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3_az9KbbFH4/TzLzd0iRRcI/AAAAAAAABbA/c9jSswvhrPY/s1600/30384_Volcano-Erupting_400.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 326px; height: 224px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3_az9KbbFH4/TzLzd0iRRcI/AAAAAAAABbA/c9jSswvhrPY/s400/30384_Volcano-Erupting_400.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5706891371475977666" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;When you build up tension in your body it is important to release it in a&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; conscious&lt;/span&gt; way. If it isn't released then it will find its way out regardless, and generally when you aren't looking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It is like a pressurised boiler.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The tension builds and builds, the sides start to bulge and eventually nuts and bolts start flying off and jets of steam start hissing out!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of letting steam off in a controlled way, you've ignored it until its found its &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;own&lt;/span&gt; way out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This principle applies as much to human beings as it does to boilers!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can see it in action on the roads. When a car driver gets stuck behind a cyclist and has to slow down to a crawl, he may begin to build up tension. The more he has to trail behind the cyclist - who is going a snails pace compared to what he is used to - the more his boiler begins to fill up. And when he finally gets past he may be just about ready to blow!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He may let this pressure off by cursing the driver or putting his foot to the floor and speeding away, leaving the cyclist to eat his exhaust fumes. But there is a chance that some of this tension could stay with him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;And then it begins to find its way out in all sorts of unfortunate ways.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe the next cyclist he comes to he isn't so courteous with. Maybe his pent up anger and frustration makes him a bit reckless. Perhaps he gets a bit too close to this next cyclist. Maybe he even clips him by accident with his wing mirror.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or he may not come across another cyclist. Phew! He speeds up and makes it home in record time! But he finds the kids even more irritable than normal tonight. He is short with his wife.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;HISS! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tension always finds its way out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The question is whether you are going to be in control of its release, or whether you're going to let it do its own thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And if you're a cyclist then its worth bearing this principle in mind too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Jmy5Dl_kMHM/TzLzvWeU1CI/AAAAAAAABbY/edpclb7HdYA/s1600/volcano_island_q_14944.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 380px; height: 244px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Jmy5Dl_kMHM/TzLzvWeU1CI/AAAAAAAABbY/edpclb7HdYA/s400/volcano_island_q_14944.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5706891672644015138" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;You may have stuck to your guns and exercised your right to be on the road, annoying who knows how many motorists in the meantime. And you may have even got away with it unscathed. But the next cyclist may just well be paying the price for your actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Be considerate.&lt;/span&gt; If there is someone behind you and they are aching to get past - &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;and you can tell when they are&lt;/span&gt; - then don't be afraid to pull over and let them be on their way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The communal gains from this considerate act are far greater than any personal losses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(And this comes from a cyclist by the way!)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8586837702970043448?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8586837702970043448/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' 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width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-9101780650050065567</id><published>2011-12-01T22:43:00.000Z</published><updated>2011-12-01T22:44:25.148Z</updated><title type='text'>The Man Watching</title><content type='html'>I can tell by the way the trees beat, after&lt;br /&gt;so many dull days, on my worried windowpanes&lt;br /&gt;that a storm is coming,&lt;br /&gt;and I hear the far-off fields say things&lt;br /&gt;I can't bear without a friend,&lt;br /&gt;I can't love without a sister&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The storm, the shifter of shapes, drives on&lt;br /&gt;across the woods and across time,&lt;br /&gt;and the world looks as if it had no age:&lt;br /&gt;the landscape like a line in the psalm book,&lt;br /&gt;is seriousness and weight and eternity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What we choose to fight is so tiny!&lt;br /&gt;What fights us is so great!&lt;br /&gt;If only we would let ourselves be dominated&lt;br /&gt;as things do by some immense storm,&lt;br /&gt;we would become strong too, and not need names.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we win it's with small things,&lt;br /&gt;and the triumph itself makes us small.&lt;br /&gt;What is extraordinary and eternal&lt;br /&gt;does not want to be bent by us.&lt;br /&gt;I mean the Angel who appeared&lt;br /&gt;to the wrestlers of the Old Testament:&lt;br /&gt;when the wrestler's sinews&lt;br /&gt;grew long like metal strings,&lt;br /&gt;he felt them under his fingers&lt;br /&gt;like chords of deep music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whoever was beaten by this Angel&lt;br /&gt;(who often simply declined the fight)&lt;br /&gt;went away proud and strengthened&lt;br /&gt;and great from that harsh hand,&lt;br /&gt;that kneaded him as if to change his shape.&lt;br /&gt;Winning does not tempt that man.&lt;br /&gt;This is how he grows: by being defeated, decisively,&lt;br /&gt;by constantly greater beings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Rainer Maria Rilke]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Man Watching&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-9101780650050065567?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/9101780650050065567/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/12/man-watching.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/9101780650050065567'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/9101780650050065567'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/12/man-watching.html' title='The Man Watching'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-2103221792621104680</id><published>2011-08-23T22:15:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2011-09-01T10:09:52.762+01:00</updated><title type='text'>We're in this together</title><content type='html'>As you have by now surely noticed, I don’t know enough about politics to ponder a solution and my hands are sticky with blood money from representing corporate interests through film, television and commercials, venerating, through my endorsements and celebrity, products and a lifestyle that contributes to the alienation of an increasingly dissatisfied underclass. But I know, as we all intuitively know that the solution is all around us and it isn’t political, it is spiritual. Gandhi said “Be the change you want to see in the world.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this simple sentiment we can find hope, as we can in the efforts of those cleaning up the debris and ash in bonhomous, broom-wielding posse’s. If we want to live in a society where people feel included, we must include them, where they feel represented, we must represent them and where they feel love and compassion for their communities then we, the members of that community, must find love and compassion for them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://www.russellbrand.tv/" target="_blank"&gt;Russell Brand&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] It is not self-defense but self-mastery that the adepts have learned. To maintain and assert the illusory sense of a separate, contending self, to encourage and nourish a preoccupation with adversity and defensiveness - this is precisely what martial arts is not. Self-mastery involves developing a concept of self quite different from the contemporary meaning implied when using the English words "self" and "defense." Self-mastery involves overcoming the illusion of the isolated self.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This basic principle of self-mastery must be what Aki's karate master had in mind when he told his new students, "Do not get hit." Aki's style and philosophy seemed to suggest a sense of collective self - of an interplay between mutual and individual will and intent. Because of the interrelatedness of all things, each "self" is a responsible participant in the collective will of all of life. One way of saying this is that both "hitter" and "hittee" are co-creators of the scenario in which someone hits someone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Such a thought threatens those who prefer to hold onto a we-they, victim-consciousness point of view. But a we-they point of view is threatening in itself. It will be a co-creation philosophy, rather than a self-defense philosophy, that will provide workable solutions for our contemporary social problems.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Doug Boyd]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mystics, Magicians and Medicine People: Tales of a Wanderer&lt;/i&gt;, p. 59-63, 65-6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/giving-and-receiving.html"&gt;Giving and Receiving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-2103221792621104680?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/2103221792621104680/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/alienation.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2103221792621104680'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2103221792621104680'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/alienation.html' title='We&apos;re in this together'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-2773897681695580479</id><published>2011-08-15T10:02:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2011-08-15T10:25:59.632+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sentencing Circles</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ppYv029G7xU/Tkjl-fIqz4I/AAAAAAAABX8/v68rUZ6GkQI/s1600/med.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 241px; height: 239px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ppYv029G7xU/Tkjl-fIqz4I/AAAAAAAABX8/v68rUZ6GkQI/s400/med.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5641011394954055554" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In traditional court procedures, the accused is brought before a judge, possibly a jury, and legal counsel seeks to establish guilt or innocence and the appropriate remedy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More recently, the victim or the victim's family has been allowed to offer "victim impact statements", describing the ways in which the crime has affected the individual and his or her relatives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Traditional courts maintain distance and hierarchy. In a sentencing circle, the offender, his or her victims, the victim's family, peers, elders and other community members sit down together in a circle and work together to understand what has led to the crime and to negotiate appropriate redress. Rather than being purely punitive, the circle promotes healing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of removing the offender from the community and isolating him or her, the circle affirms the essential goodness of the offender, attempting to restore and re-build the offender, the victim, and the community to which they all belong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.umanitoba.ca/cm/vol5/no20/circles.html" target="_blank"&gt;Circles: It's about Justice. It's about Healing.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-y18sxdSbvBc/TkjmFWT8iAI/AAAAAAAABYE/WerdJbdkung/s1600/indian-symbols-mandala-source_ama.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 242px; height: 342px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-y18sxdSbvBc/TkjmFWT8iAI/AAAAAAAABYE/WerdJbdkung/s400/indian-symbols-mandala-source_ama.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5641011512844519426" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;[...] The sentencing circle is about “community building,” he says; it is about “healing” those affected by crime, and those who committed it. It is repairing relations; making victims and perpetrators “feel better” with the outcome of a criminal incident.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] “What social scientist in the last 100 years has said, ‘Gee, punishment changes behaviour’?” Mr. Stuart asks. Much better, he says, is for criminals to feel their community’s “love.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] “If the judge were to effectively ignore the circle that would be sending a message that we don’t want your opinion on justice matters or that somehow punishment is more important than building community,”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] “There’s a basic philosophical question that has to be engaged before you even get involved in sentencing circles and that is what are your primary goals or objectives in sentencing,” says David Paciocco, a law professor at the university of Ottawa. “It all depends on your perspective on what we’re trying to accomplish when we sentence.” Sentencing circles appeal to those wanting primarily to reintegrate criminals into their offended community, he says. “If on the other hand you believe that sentencing is a principled exercise designed to express societal revulsion at criminal conduct, or if you believe that proportionality is the underlying consideration in sentencing, then you’re probably going to feel uncomfortable with a regime that’s designed to see how we can move forward rather than respond to what’s happened in the past.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Supporters of the circles say their strength is that the process reflects a more time-honoured form of justice; &lt;b&gt;It is, Mr. Stuart points out, a community choosing to “roll up its sleeves” in the grandest traditions of civil society, to solve its own problems. “We’re living now in this la-la land where nobody really participates,” he says. “It’s all done by professionals . . . we’ve outsourced everything.”&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=1337495" target="_blank"&gt;'Sentencing circles for aboriginals: Good justice?'&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/01/carry-each-other.html"&gt;Carry Each Other&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/10/evil-and-us.html"&gt;Evil and Us&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/10/taking-back-projection.html"&gt;Taking Back the Projection&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/09/shadow.html"&gt;Cast No Shadow?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-2773897681695580479?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/2773897681695580479/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/sentencing-circles.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2773897681695580479'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2773897681695580479'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/sentencing-circles.html' title='Sentencing Circles'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ppYv029G7xU/Tkjl-fIqz4I/AAAAAAAABX8/v68rUZ6GkQI/s72-c/med.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-1325626753269795158</id><published>2011-08-02T19:33:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T19:51:07.685+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Life Support</title><content type='html'>"David is a spokesman. That's his identity. If a person can't do what he or she's s'posed to do - well, they die. Everybody has to follow his purpose. David is a storyteller and if a storyteller stops telling stories, he stops having his life. Then he dies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These days, people have stopped paying attention to the old ones. That's not the way it's s'posed to be. As long as people can keep on doin' what they're s'posed to be doin', they can keep on living. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People are s'posed to be supported so they can do their thing. Without the help of others, no people can carry out their identity - I don't care who they are or what they're s'posed to be doin'. And if it doesn't need others, then it's not their true identity - not for this world - and they might as well not even be here. People keep each other alive with support. So if someone is a musician, we ought to listen. If they're a cook, why, you go ahead and eat and tell 'em how that hit the spot, how you needed that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] How people can be so thoughtless, they don't even let a man carry on his life-" He took a loud sip from his coffee cup. "How in the world people could have got so much into their own selves that they don't think they need each other - I sure can't understand it. If people stop listen' to David, now how can he be a storyteller? You tell me. And if he can't be a storyteller, he'll die. That's the way it works."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Rolling Thunder, quoted by &lt;a href="http://www.intuition.org/boyd_doug_memorial.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Doug Boyd&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mystics, Magicians and Medicine People: Tales of a Wanderer&lt;/i&gt;, p. 190-1&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-1325626753269795158?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/1325626753269795158/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/life-support.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/1325626753269795158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/1325626753269795158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/life-support.html' title='Life Support'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8277597108535952942</id><published>2011-07-28T09:33:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2011-07-28T10:06:24.760+01:00</updated><title type='text'>The Four Laws</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bR6V0rzaD3c/TjEmeVzoDPI/AAAAAAAABX0/vNK-o8saEsA/s1600/thumbs_Tree%2Blife.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 246px; height: 247px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bR6V0rzaD3c/TjEmeVzoDPI/AAAAAAAABX0/vNK-o8saEsA/s400/thumbs_Tree%2Blife.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5634326911508810994" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The four laws have been given [...]: Love your God, love your neighbor, give, and forgive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The problems are based on fear. People want this and that, to get so many things, more than they need. You call it greed, but it's based on fear. It grows steadily worse because others don't have their basic needs, and this makes your world unsafe. If people can be free of this fear, they can take care of each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So these four laws are related. Love your neighbor means do not violate your fellow human being in any way. Love your God means see your God as your own self within you. Don't think that God is outside of you - up in the sky somewhere, frowning at you. If you think God is looking down from above, pointing a finger in judgement and anger, you cannot love your neighbor. You cannot be giving, and you will not believe in forgiving. Forgiving means you don't violate in return one who has violated you. No God would do that. Never, never desire revenge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So this is the people's business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;["Henry," quoted by &lt;a href="http://www.intuition.org/boyd_doug_memorial.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Doug Boyd&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mystics, Magicians and Medicine People: Tales of a Wanderer&lt;/i&gt;, p. 170&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8277597108535952942?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8277597108535952942/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/07/four-laws.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8277597108535952942'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8277597108535952942'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/07/four-laws.html' title='The Four Laws'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bR6V0rzaD3c/TjEmeVzoDPI/AAAAAAAABX0/vNK-o8saEsA/s72-c/thumbs_Tree%2Blife.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-2236738894661226838</id><published>2011-06-10T17:06:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2012-01-07T11:23:16.852Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I: Return to Ground'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ownership'/><title type='text'>Closing The Book</title><content type='html'>The innermost kernel of every genuine and actual piece of knowledge is a perception; every new truth is also the fruit of such a perception.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even writing and speaking, whether didactic or poetical, have as their ultimate aim the guidance of the reader to that knowledge of perception from which the author started; if they do not have this aim, they are bad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For this reason, the contemplation and observation of everything &lt;i&gt;actual&lt;/i&gt;, as soon as it presents something new to the observer, is more instructive than all reading and hearing about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For indeed, if we go to the bottom of the matter, all truth and wisdom, in fact the ultimate secret of things, is contained in everything actual, yet certainly only &lt;i&gt;in concreto&lt;/i&gt; and like gold hidden in ore. The question is how to extract it. From a book, on the other hand, we obtain the truth only second-hand at best, and often not at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Therefore, as a rule, the man of the world cannot impart his accumulated truth and wisdom, but only practice it. He rightly comprehends everything that occurs, and decides what is conformable thereto. That books do not take the place of experience, and that learning is no substitute for genius, are two kindred phenomena; their common ground is that the abstract can never take the place of the perceptive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Therefore books do not take the place of experience, because &lt;i&gt;concepts&lt;/i&gt; always remain &lt;i&gt;universal&lt;/i&gt;, and so do not reach down to the particular; yet it is precisely the particular that has to be dealt with in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only the person who intuitively knows the true nature of men as they generally are, and comprehends the individuality of the particular person before him, will understand how to deal with him correctly and with certainty. Another person may know by heart all the three hundred maxims of wisdom by Gracián, but this will not protect him from stupid blunders and mistakes, if he lacks that intuitive knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] This explains why the scholar, whose merit lies in abundance of abstract knowledge, is so inferior to the man of the world, whose merit consists in perfect intuitive knowledge, which an original disposition has conceded to him, and a rich experience has developed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to what has been said, we find among all classes of persons of intellectual superiority, often without any learning at all. For natural understanding can take the place of almost every degree of intellectual culture, but no culture can take the place of natural understanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The scholar certainly has the advantage of such people in an abundance of cases and facts (historical knowledge), and of causal determinations (natural science), everything in well arranged, easily surveyed sequence; but yet, with all this, he does not have a more accurate and profound insight into what is really essential in all those cases, facts, and causalities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The unlearned man of acuteness and penetration knows how to dispense with that abundance; we are sparing of much, we make do with little. One case from his own experience teaches him more than many a scholar is taught by a thousand cases which he &lt;i&gt;knows&lt;/i&gt;, but does not really &lt;i&gt;understand&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the little knowledge of that unlearned man is &lt;i&gt;alive&lt;/i&gt;, since every fact known to him is verified by accurate and well-apprehended perception. Thus this fact is for him the representative of a thousand similar facts. On the other hand, much of the ordinary scholar's knowledge is &lt;i&gt;dead&lt;/i&gt;, since, even if it does not consist of mere words, as often is the case, it nevertheless consists of nothing but abstract knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The constant influx of other people's ideas must certainly stop and stifle our own, and indeed, in the long run, paralyse the power of thought, unless it has a high degree of elasticity able to withstand that unnatural flow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Therefore incessant reading and study positively ruin the mind; this, moreover, is caused by the fact that the system of our own ideas and knowledge loses its completeness and uninterrupted continuity, when we arbitrarily upset this so often in order to gain room for an entirely foreign range of ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To banish my thoughts in order to make room for those of a book would seem to me to be just what Shakespeare censures in the travellers of his time, that they sell their own land in order to see those of others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is even risky to read about a subject before we ourselves have reflected on it. For with the new material, another person's view and treatment of it creep into the mind, all the more since laziness and apathy urge us to save ourselves the trouble of thinking, to accept what has already been thought, and to allow this to become current.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The mind certainly requires nourishment, namely material from outside. All that we eat, however, is not incorporated into the organism at once, but only in so far as it has been digested, whereby only a small part of it is actually assimilated, the remainder passing from the system, so that to eat more than we can assimilate is useless, and even injurious.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is precisely the same as regards what we read; only in so far as it gives material for thinking does it increase our insight and our knowledge proper.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] the more they neglected practice, the more sharply did they bring theory to a fine point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schopenhauer" target="_blank"&gt;Arthur Schopenhauer&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The World as Will and Representation, Volume II&lt;/i&gt;, p.72, 156&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/01/live-your-truth.html"&gt;Searching for Truth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/05/opinion-piece.html"&gt;Searching Without/ Searching Within&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-2236738894661226838?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/2236738894661226838/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/02/closing-book.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2236738894661226838'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2236738894661226838'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/02/closing-book.html' title='Closing The Book'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8715751900162742028</id><published>2011-06-09T10:25:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2011-06-09T10:34:00.280+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Community'/><title type='text'>A Circle of Gifts</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tE1aJ9XbIZA/TfCTa9o3sUI/AAAAAAAABXg/f0OsKJSd6CM/s1600/yanomami3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 358px; height: 246px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tE1aJ9XbIZA/TfCTa9o3sUI/AAAAAAAABXg/f0OsKJSd6CM/s400/yanomami3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5616150826762875202" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;When we get together to consume – food, drink, or entertainment – do we really draw on the gifts of anyone present? Anyone can consume. Intimacy comes from co-creation, not co-consumption, as anyone in a band can tell you, and it is different from liking or disliking someone. But in a monetized society, our creativity happens in specialized domains, for money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To forge community then, we must do more than simply get people together. While that is a start, soon we get tired of just talking, and we want to do something, to create something. It is a very tepid community indeed, when the only need being met is the need to air opinions and feel that we are right, that we get it, and isn't it too bad that other people don't ... hey, I know! Let's collect each others' email addresses and start a listserv!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Community is woven from gifts. Unlike today's market system, whose built-in scarcity compels competition in which more for me is less for you, in a gift economy the opposite holds. Because people in gift culture pass on their surplus rather than accumulating it, your good fortune is my good fortune: more for you is more for me. Wealth circulates, gravitating toward the greatest need. In a gift community, people know that their gifts will eventually come back to them, albeit often in a new form. Such a community might be called a "circle of the gift."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately, the monetization of life has reached its peak in our time, and is beginning a long and permanent receding (of which economic "recession" is an aspect). Both out of desire and necessity, we are poised at a critical moment of opportunity to reclaim gift culture, and therefore to build true community. The reclamation is part of a larger shift of human consciousness, a larger reunion with nature, earth, each other, and lost parts of ourselves. Our alienation from gift culture is an aberration and our independence an illusion. We are not actually independent or "financially secure" – we are just as dependent as before, only on strangers and impersonal institutions, and, as we are likely to soon discover, these institutions are quite fragile.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://www.realitysandwich.com/blog/1736" target="_blank"&gt;Charles Eisenstein&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;'&lt;a href="http://www.realitysandwich.com/circle_gifts" target="_blank"&gt;A Circle of Gifts&lt;/a&gt;'&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8715751900162742028?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8715751900162742028/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/06/circle-of-gifts.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8715751900162742028'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8715751900162742028'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/06/circle-of-gifts.html' title='A Circle of Gifts'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tE1aJ9XbIZA/TfCTa9o3sUI/AAAAAAAABXg/f0OsKJSd6CM/s72-c/yanomami3.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-3556318344067029576</id><published>2011-05-10T09:28:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-05-10T16:52:08.164+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Short-term savings, long-term costs</title><content type='html'>One of the most important studies that we have on the effects of local business compared the impacts of $100 spent at a local book store versus $100 spent at a chain. $100 spent at the local book store left $45 in the local economy. $100 spent at the chain left $13, so we get 3 times the income effects, 3 times the jobs, 3 times the tax proceeds for local governments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The principle difference was that the local book store had a local high level management team; it used local lawyers and accountants; it advertised on local radio and TV. None of those things were true of the chain store.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excerpt from '&lt;a href="http://www.theeconomicsofhappiness.org/" target="_blank"&gt;The Economics of Happiness&lt;/a&gt;'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_vle_IZR-7PI/TUvIrP8I4KI/AAAAAAAABG8/K6XTGbGTM2I/s1600/walmart-2jb__oPt.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 360px; height: 270px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_vle_IZR-7PI/TUvIrP8I4KI/AAAAAAAABG8/K6XTGbGTM2I/s400/walmart-2jb__oPt.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569766009512452258" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Wal-Mart's lengthy struggle to open in New York City has hit fresh  problems -- a controversial report that said America's biggest  discounter does not just sell cheap, it makes neighborhoods poorer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The overwhelming weight of the independent research on the impact of  Wal-Mart stores ... shows that Wal-Mart depresses area wages and labor  benefits ... pushes out more retail jobs than it creates, and results in  more retail vacancies," [...]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt; New York City Public Advocate Bill de Blasio calls a possible Wal-Mart store in New York "a Trojan horse."&lt;/p&gt;                 &lt;p&gt; "It looks appealing to a lot of families who are hurting but it turns  into a big problem in the long term because of the net elimination of  jobs," de Blasio said.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Despite the poverty in East New York and Brownsville, many residents are against the stores setting up here.&lt;/p&gt;                 &lt;p&gt; "It would be a disaster," said Mark Tanis, owner of an East New York  shopping market about three miles from a proposed sites. "It would have a  detrimental impact on our area."&lt;/p&gt;                 &lt;p&gt; Tanis said he fears a product he sells for $20 could sell for as little as $12 at Wal-Mart and drive him out of business.&lt;/p&gt;                 &lt;p&gt; East New York resident Darryl Williams, 43, echoed the view of many,  saying, "Cheap things would be nice but if it's true that we'll end up  with even fewer jobs, that's not good."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Courtney Laidlaw, 22, who lives near the two possible locations said,  "We have become a society of bargain shoppers and having a Wal-Mart  locally will definitely be beneficial.&lt;/p&gt;                 &lt;p&gt; "The small businesses that can adapt to the socioeconomic times that we  live in will find a way to survive. Wal-Mart is just an alternative  destination, not the only destination." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  In Brooklyn, one of the loudest anti-Wal-Mart voices has been City  Councilman Charles Barron from East New York, who has been leading  demonstrations. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  "We don't need Wal-Mart (which) has a history of destroying the local economy and hurting it, not helping it," he said. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;i&gt;"&lt;a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20110203/us_nm/us_walmart_newyork%3B_ylt%3DAjlMj96YGoRretxuzMOcPPqs0NUE%3B_ylu%3DX3oDMTNtZDJlMHFjBGFzc2V0A25tLzIwMTEwMjAzL3VzX3dhbG1hcnRfbmV3eW9yawRjY29kZQNtb3N0cG9wdWxhcgRjcG9zAzcEcG9zAzQEcHQDaG9tZV9jb2tlBHNlYwN5bl9oZWFkbGluZV9saXN0BHNsawN3YWwtbWFydGRyYXc-" target="_blank"&gt;Wal-Mart draws ire even in poor parts of Brooklyn&lt;/a&gt;", Yahoo News&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/03/beggars-and-choosers.html"&gt;Beggars and Choosers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-3556318344067029576?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/3556318344067029576/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/02/short-term-savings-long-term-costs.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3556318344067029576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3556318344067029576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/02/short-term-savings-long-term-costs.html' title='Short-term savings, long-term costs'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_vle_IZR-7PI/TUvIrP8I4KI/AAAAAAAABG8/K6XTGbGTM2I/s72-c/walmart-2jb__oPt.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-5675434968484454097</id><published>2011-05-05T23:47:00.014+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-01T22:16:02.486Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Act'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I: Solid and Liquid'/><title type='text'>Sailing the Turbulent Seas</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sokV9Jf6LvQ/TcMutJNL1bI/AAAAAAAABSw/bobNBN2YxvI/s1600/stretching_before_4_ap_03.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 265px; height: 250px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sokV9Jf6LvQ/TcMutJNL1bI/AAAAAAAABSw/bobNBN2YxvI/s400/stretching_before_4_ap_03.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5603373714479240626" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;lt; --------------------- 0 ---------------------- &amp;gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is &lt;i&gt;nothing&lt;/i&gt;, neutral point, ground zero. And then there is &lt;i&gt;something&lt;/i&gt;, which is always a departure from zero point, in one direction or another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things have a tendency to remain the same, to (appear to) be balanced. In order for a thing to change it must go through a period of unrest, a transformation. This may be great disturbance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The hardest thing is always transitioning from one balance to another. For example, when my leg was injured it was always most painful when I going from being still to moving. Once I'd grown accustomed to either state it was fine; only the transition was painful. Getting out of bed/getting into bed. It's fine once you're out, fine once you're in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6DtH4bKXEeU/TcMuzGtjliI/AAAAAAAABS4/M_9CmwBw8b4/s1600/stretching_before_14_ap_03.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 116px; height: 265px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6DtH4bKXEeU/TcMuzGtjliI/AAAAAAAABS4/M_9CmwBw8b4/s400/stretching_before_14_ap_03.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5603373816888923682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;We see this pattern everywhere. In sports: to raise our level of fitness we must push ourselves, or "overload" as it is called in weight training. We must overload - place the body under stress, give it something it is not used to, push it beyond its current boundaries - if we want to progress, or change. After a period of transformation we will reach a new balance, a new level of fitness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is the same with stretching:  our muscles will have a default length, which is really the length that our day-to-day activities (our environment) require them to be. In order to lengthen them we must continually stretch them - i.e. engage in new activities that require them to be a longer length. If we keep up these new activities - if our stretching becomes part of our day-to-day routine - then our muscles will remain at this new length. As soon as we stop stretching, our muscles will adapt to the new circumstances: they will shorten.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stretching is like Acting. If our default mode is primarily selfish, then in order to counteract this we must "stretch" regularly - in other words, we must make a conscious effort to be unselfish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We must understand what our default is. Default seems to be defined by environment. We can see &lt;i&gt;strength&lt;/i&gt; as our ability to stray from our default, in other words our ability to Act or change. Through Acting we come to know our &lt;i&gt;weaknesses&lt;/i&gt;; these are like ceilings on our ambitions, or boundaries beyond which we cannot stray.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;In order to reach a new destination, you must be prepared to sail the turbulent seas&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conscious Stretching and Acting is only necessary outside the bounds of a structured community. It is the action of a responsible individual. Within a structured community, we stretch and act automatically without knowing that this is what we are doing. In other words, we are constantly stretched to the right length in order to function in harmony with our surroundings. The necessities of this kind of life demand as much. Currently the individual must Act because he is not contained within a harmonious community, and he must carry various ideals within himself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Cp3wyjRLpCs/TcMu_ywtdEI/AAAAAAAABTA/VQ5yMX-bCQs/s1600/stretching_before_6_ap_03.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 275px; height: 199px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Cp3wyjRLpCs/TcMu_ywtdEI/AAAAAAAABTA/VQ5yMX-bCQs/s400/stretching_before_6_ap_03.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5603374034871743554" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;There is currently little motivation to Act or to stretch. We live in such comfort that we may not see the necessity of staying in good shape, either physically or ethically. There are supports that will catch us when we fall and that will prevent us from having to feel the consequences of our ill-health. We have devices that keep the body comfortable and that prevent it from having to exert itself; and we have devices that prevent us from having to be ethically responsible and that remove us from the outcomes of our ethical indiscipline.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our default, as defined by our environment, is imbalanced, unhealthy. It is in poor shape, both physically and ethically. The individual who decides to depart from this default - who begins to stretch and Act in order to 'get fit' - will be fighting an tough battle, and may have to fight it alone. In departing from the general default - from the general requirements of his environment, his &lt;i&gt;culture&lt;/i&gt; - he becomes an aberration; an obsessive; a misguided fool; a curious novelty. It is much easier to maintain a level of fitness if we are surrounded by others who are also striving to remain at this same level, or to reach higher.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Society sets the default. If the individual is displeased with this default then he must depart from the conventions of the society. He will be at odds with many "normal" things. If we live in an ethically excellent community - in other words, a community that is in balance with itself and with its environment - then we need no longer stretch and Act because our default will be sufficient. This is why the traditional community required little stretching or Acting. The traditional community hovered around the "0", the point of balance. The individual did not need to strive for excellency, this was a communal undertaking, a communal default.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/11/healthy-risks.html"&gt;Healthy Risks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/01/do-not-disturb.html"&gt;Do Not Disturb&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/02/do-not-disturb.html"&gt;Do Not Disturb&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/04/status-quo.html"&gt;Status Quo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-5675434968484454097?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/5675434968484454097/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/sailing-turbulent-seas.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/5675434968484454097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/5675434968484454097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/sailing-turbulent-seas.html' title='Sailing the Turbulent Seas'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sokV9Jf6LvQ/TcMutJNL1bI/AAAAAAAABSw/bobNBN2YxvI/s72-c/stretching_before_4_ap_03.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-7272718881513155492</id><published>2011-05-05T10:33:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2011-05-05T10:40:12.408+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Postmodernism'/><title type='text'>Kali Yuga</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ej3hcDvgBag/TcJwcZWY0DI/AAAAAAAABSo/JT74TH84r7k/s1600/45.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 281px; height: 281px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ej3hcDvgBag/TcJwcZWY0DI/AAAAAAAABSo/JT74TH84r7k/s400/45.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5603164519545753650" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt;Kali Yuga&lt;/b&gt;  : (Devanāgarī: कलियुग [kəli juɡə], lit. "age of (the male demon) Kali", or "age of vice") is the last of the four stages that the world goes through as part of the cycle of yugas described in the Indian scriptures. The other ages are Satya Yuga, Treta Yuga and Dvapara Yuga.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hindus and Sikhs believe that human civilization degenerates spiritually during the Kali Yuga, which is referred to as the Dark Age because in it people are as far removed as possible from God. Hinduism often symbolically represents morality (dharma) as a bull. In Satya Yuga, the first stage of development, the bull has four legs, but in each age morality is reduced by one quarter. By the age of Kali, morality is reduced to only a quarter of that of the golden age, so that the bull of Dharma has only one leg.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A discourse by Markandeya in the Mahabharata identifies some of the attributes of Kali Yuga:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;In relation to rulers&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Rulers will become unreasonable: they will levy taxes unfairly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Rulers will no longer see it as their duty to promote spirituality, or to protect their subjects: they will become a danger to the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * People will start migrating, seeking countries where wheat and barley form the staple food source.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;In human relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Avarice and wrath will be common. Humans will openly display animosity towards each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Ignorance of dharma will occur.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * People will have thoughts of murder with no justification and will see nothing wrong in that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Lust will be viewed as socially acceptable and sexual intercourse will be seen as the central requirement of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Sin will increase exponentially, whilst virtue will fade and cease to flourish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * People will take vows and break them soon after.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * People will become addicted to intoxicating drinks and drugs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  * Gurus will no longer be respected and their students will attempt to injure them. Their teachings will be insulted, and followers of Kama will wrest control of the mind from all human beings. Brahmins will not be learned or honoured, Kshatriyas will not be brave, Vaishyas will not be just in their dealings and Shudras will be allotted unreasonable 'caste-based' duties which they will avoid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kali_Yuga" target="_blank"&gt;Kali Yuga&lt;/a&gt;'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/real-thing.html"&gt;The Real Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-7272718881513155492?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/7272718881513155492/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/kali-yuga.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7272718881513155492'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7272718881513155492'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/kali-yuga.html' title='Kali Yuga'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ej3hcDvgBag/TcJwcZWY0DI/AAAAAAAABSo/JT74TH84r7k/s72-c/45.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-3334927331285832507</id><published>2011-05-04T09:48:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2011-05-04T10:18:42.044+01:00</updated><title type='text'>What Are You Selling?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fzxLitdyMFo/TcEXJYmTlkI/AAAAAAAABSY/wcTYJKi9k9s/s1600/blank-billboard.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 318px; height: 238px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fzxLitdyMFo/TcEXJYmTlkI/AAAAAAAABSY/wcTYJKi9k9s/s400/blank-billboard.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5602784861414987330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Well, I tried to tell them nice as I could, but I had to explain to them that you don't go out to the Indians with something to sell, not religion, not politics, not modern science or products or anything else, because that's not where it's at when you're dealing with Indians.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The white man's always got to be selling something - peddle, peddle, peddle, proselytize and propagandize. Maybe that's why you people here can learn a thing or two, because you don't have anything to sell.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Doug Boyd]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rolling Thunder&lt;/i&gt;, p.83&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily training in the Art of Peace allows your inner divinity to shine brighter and brighter. Do not concern yourself with the right and wrong of others. Do not be calculating or act unnaturally.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep your mind set on the Art of Peace, and do not criticize other teachers or traditions. The Art of Peace never restrains, restricts, or shackles anything. It embraces all and purifies everything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morihei_Ueshiba" target="_blank"&gt;Morihei Ueshiba&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Art of Peace&lt;/i&gt;, p.50&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-3334927331285832507?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/3334927331285832507/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/what-are-you-selling.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3334927331285832507'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3334927331285832507'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/05/what-are-you-selling.html' title='What Are You Selling?'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fzxLitdyMFo/TcEXJYmTlkI/AAAAAAAABSY/wcTYJKi9k9s/s72-c/blank-billboard.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-7786967511792108969</id><published>2011-04-22T11:41:00.018+01:00</published><updated>2011-04-23T00:03:21.116+01:00</updated><title type='text'>The Role of Charities</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-aY94S_d4GMc/TbF3wEO521I/AAAAAAAABSA/ZLLkEX2P1ks/s1600/bandage_appl_25731_lg.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 260px; height: 156px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-aY94S_d4GMc/TbF3wEO521I/AAAAAAAABSA/ZLLkEX2P1ks/s400/bandage_appl_25731_lg.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598387479451917138" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Many charities appear to be about finding solutions to dysfunctional situations, about &lt;i&gt;ending things&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Oxfam&lt;/b&gt;: "Mission possible: ending poverty"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;NSPCC&lt;/b&gt;: "we aim to end cruelty to children in the UK"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;RSPCA&lt;/b&gt;: "It's our vision to work for a world in which all humans respect and live in harmony with all other members of the animal kingdom."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Unicef&lt;/b&gt;: "To protect the rights of every child, and invest in her or his well-being, is the surest way to end poverty and to build peace and security in the world."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Breadline Africa&lt;/b&gt;: "Ending Poverty Through Charity Donation"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whilst many who are involved in charity work may want to contribute towards finding solutions and ending things, we must ask if these solutions are really to be found through the current tactics of certain charitable organizations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Picture this scenario.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A person is trapped within a cell. Conditions within the cell are not good, and our prisoner suffers from a number of physical and mental wounds caused by his imprisonment. He is visited regularly by a medic, who tends to his physical grievances, and a psychologist, who tends to his mental grievances. Between them they manage to keep the prisoner at an apparent equilibrium. He neither gets too ill, nor too well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can see charities as being akin to these health professionals, tending to the wounds of those in need. Our professionals stick firmly to their remit. They are trained in tending wounds, and this is their role. They are not there to ask why the prisoner is held captive, because questions like these may well be beyond their jurisdiction, and could land them in trouble with their superiors. After all, their duties provide them with a steady income, and they have families to support. In the last, our professionals have no real concern with seeing an end to this scenario. They may not like it, but they do not see how they can end it. It does not seem to be something that can be changed. The best they can do is to make conditions for our prisoner as bearable as possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our professionals think in the small-scale. They know the borders of their roles, and they do not travel beyond them. They are specialists, and their forte lies in tending wounds. This is the role that they play, and the shape that they assume in order to fit a larger pattern. A charity can likewise think in the small-scale. In doing so it concerns itself with its mission, tending to whatever wound it happens to specialize in. Like our small-scale medics, it would not be concerned with looking beyond the borders of its remit; with asking why the prisoner is held captive, or with questioning the effectiveness, the purpose, or the ideology of the prison.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-a-9PxdHODeA/TbF30ceWi-I/AAAAAAAABSI/9vvJ91IQZw4/s1600/tri-vic.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 290px; height: 348px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-a-9PxdHODeA/TbF30ceWi-I/AAAAAAAABSI/9vvJ91IQZw4/s400/tri-vic.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598387554678639586" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A charity that thinks large-scale, on the other hand, would be interested in such questions. It may be concerned with his wounds, and may tend to them; but it would also see that if the larger context - the cell - is not dealt with, is not changed, then the wounds will continue to be inflicted; and eventually our prisoner will simply not be able to take anymore, regardless of the help he receives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A charity that thinks in the large-scale must always have one eye on the larger picture - the prison - and must always be asking questions of it, regardless of where they may lead. Whilst it may be difficult to trace back the causality of any given situation, this is no excuse for not engaging in an investigation. It cannot simply stick to its remit as medic, otherwise it becomes complicit in the drama, another player on the stage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Such a charity must be interested in systems. It must be interested in how one thing leads to another. Its natural role is a dual one; both medic (zoomed-in, seeing and tending to details) and systems-analyst (zoomed-out, seeing patterns and connections). It must always be seeking to see the larger picture, to push back the boundaries of causality until it can go no further. Only once it has a wide perspective - once it has climbed the mountain of causality, traced the thread all the way back through the labyrinth - can it truly act effectively to eliminate dysfunction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To zoom-in and look at things in isolation is characteristic of the way that we currently approach the world in most "advanced" Western societies. Traditional societies tend to adopt different approaches. When it comes to health, Native Americans, for example, see things holistically. If a person is unwell, then their illness will be seen as part of a larger picture, and the whole person will be treated rather than the illness in isolation. The essential connectedness of things is acknowledged, instead of one part being split off and seen as separate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;i&gt;For the Native American, healing, spiritual development and quality of life cannot be separated from other life aspects to include politics and economics. Harmony with the Earth is essential for health.&lt;/i&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In attempting to heal the various wounds of our current way of life, charities could learn a lot from this holistic approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YSFAQEqFOow/TbF376Alh8I/AAAAAAAABSQ/FZ-aGu_vAvs/s1600/bandaging-2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 350px; height: 227px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YSFAQEqFOow/TbF376Alh8I/AAAAAAAABSQ/FZ-aGu_vAvs/s400/bandaging-2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598387682865940418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;However, perhaps most charities only seek to alleviate dysfunction, as opposed to remedy it. In this sense they are a bandage, as opposed to a cure. They become part of a balancing act: through mopping up the mess that is made by the larger system (capitalism) they make it presentable - &lt;i&gt;acceptable&lt;/i&gt; - thus allowing it to continue. Without them it would slip into a massive imbalance. The wound would worsen beyond repair, and we would be faced with the full consequences of our actions. As it is, the system appears to be held in perpetual motion - nothing gets better, nothing gets worse, and things go on as normal. The wound is left to bleed, and a new bandage is constantly applied. But this can only go on for so long. Despite the combined efforts of all of the worlds charities, they cannot balance out the ongoing destructive impact of the system, and our state of "equilibrium" is really nothing more than an illusion. Eventually the wound will cause problems that no bandage can deal with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If a person or an organization is serious about bringing an end to a dysfunctional state of affairs - to find a remedy, to bring about change - then it is not enough for them to simply tend to the wound. They must be prepared to think holistically, balancing small-scale thinking with large-scale thinking. As the Native Americans remind us, it is a mistake to think that the only way to help a sick man is to take away the illness. And inasmuch as a particular illness is found to be related to a larger state of affairs, then any such charity that is not radically opposed to the status-quo cannot be rightly described as being serious about its aims.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we decide that our society is sick then in order to heal it we may need to do more than simply attend to its various wounds.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-7786967511792108969?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/7786967511792108969/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/role-of-charities.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7786967511792108969'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7786967511792108969'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/role-of-charities.html' title='The Role of Charities'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-aY94S_d4GMc/TbF3wEO521I/AAAAAAAABSA/ZLLkEX2P1ks/s72-c/bandage_appl_25731_lg.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8302598298269159746</id><published>2011-04-21T09:27:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2011-05-04T09:40:02.660+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Holding Each Other</title><content type='html'>Whether on a personal or collective level, we are discovering that the stories of separation are untrue. What we do unto the other, inescapably visits ourselves as well in some form. As that becomes increasingly obvious, a new story of self and story of the people becomes accessible to us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] The new story of self is the connected self, the self of interbeingness. The new story of the people is one of cocreative partnership with Lover Earth. They ring true in our hearts, we see them on the horizon, but we do not yet live yet in these new stories. It is hard to, when the institutions and habits of the old world still surround us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;[...] "It is impossible to abide in Nirvana alone. If any sentient being is left out of it, then part of me is left out of it." Only someone under the delusion that he is a discrete, separate soul would imagine otherwise.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enlightening as these teachings might be, mere information is not enough. As many spiritual traditions recognize, a living teacher, a guru, is necessary to bring the teachings to life in their unique application to each individual. We need something from beyond our old selves, someone to illuminate our blind spots, to humble our conceit, to show us the love we didn't know we had within us. This presents a problem today, because the age of the guru is manifestly over.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No human being can hold the guru energy in post-modern society. This is old news - the age of the guru has been over for at least thirty years. In the 1960s and 70s, any number of masters came to America from the East and, absent the cultural structures that traditionally kept them in an insulated realm, succumbed one after another to scandals involving money, sex, and power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spiritual self-sufficiency ignores the fundamental truth of our interbeingness. Without each other, we cannot make those peak experiences, those glimpses we have all had of a more vivid way of being, into anything more than glimpses. How can we make them into a new baseline for life? How can we enter into the world that they show us, how can we redeem their promise? How can we bring into living reality the knowledge that we have been shown something true and real? Each time, the old world drags us back. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The inertia of our habits and beliefs, the expectations of the people surrounding us, the way we are seen, the media, the pressures of the money system all conspire to hold us where we were. Coming off a peak experience, we may try to insulate ourselves from all these things, to live in a bubble of positivity, but eventually we realize that is impossible. The negative influences find a way to creep back in. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Each one of us is pioneering a different aspect of the connected self in the age of reunion, and each one of us as well carries vestigial habits of the age of separation that are invisible to us or that, if visible, we are helpless to overcome on our own. &lt;b&gt;Quite practically, to inhabit a more enlightened state we must be held there by a community of new habits, new ways of seeing each other, and new beliefs in action that redefine normal&lt;/b&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, in the age of the connected self our guru can be none other than a collective, a community - as Thich Nhat Hanh put it, "The next Buddha will be a sangha." By a community, I don't mean an amorphous "we are all one" mass devoid of structure, but rather a matrix of human beings united in a common story of the people and story of the self. Aligned with these defining stories, this community can hold us in the vision of what we are becoming.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] This realization often manifests as a desire to find one's true purpose in life, one's service to the world. Such a purpose is never just about the separate egoic self. It is always about service; it is about one's gifts and how to give them. Purpose is about gift and relationship. The emerging state of vitality, joy, and love that humanity is entering is not a place where we can abide for long on our own. We need each other. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt; [...] To be dependent is to be alive - it is to be enmeshed in the give and take of the world.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] We can do for each other what a guru does for a disciple: hold each other in the knowing of who we really are, and teach each other how to live there. Each of us, as we experience our own piece of the age of reunion, becomes a guide to a small part of that vast new territory. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://www.ascentofhumanity.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Charles Eisenstein&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;'&lt;a href="http://www.realitysandwich.com/across_threshold_0" target="_blank"&gt;Why the Age of the Guru is Over&lt;/a&gt;'&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8302598298269159746?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8302598298269159746/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/holding-each-other.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8302598298269159746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8302598298269159746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/holding-each-other.html' title='Holding Each Other'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-6703815641240314253</id><published>2011-04-20T12:37:00.013+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-08T10:17:11.852Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Individual/Whole'/><title type='text'>The Path of Maturation</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-PzCJWUx6zgs/Ta7FmYEhvoI/AAAAAAAABRg/qACa6s8zxKE/s1600/basic-1.png"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 288px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-PzCJWUx6zgs/Ta7FmYEhvoI/AAAAAAAABRg/qACa6s8zxKE/s400/basic-1.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5597628649955245698" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Elders speak about everyone, but they do not ask to spoken about. They see everyone, but do not ask to be seen. The self is sacrificed, put to one side.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we mature our gaze gradually turns away from the self and out towards others. We see more and become responsible for more. The less we look at the self, the more we see of our surroundings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We begin to speak less in terms of "I" and "me" and more in terms of "we" and "us." We recognize our connectedness and become communalized.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For an elder to ask to be seen or spoken about is a perversity, and goes against the natural order. Just as water flows downhill, our gaze should also flow downwards, so that we see and speak about all those beneath us - less mature than us - and are in turn seen and spoken about by those above us. And as we wouldn't expect water to flow uphill - and would be engaging in a fruitless activity if we were attempt to make it - we shouldn't expect to be seen or spoken about by those beneath us. As we become older the self should become less important, and should not need to be stroked as much as when we were younger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;o &amp;lt; ------- o &amp;lt; ------- o &amp;lt; ------- o &amp;lt; ------- o &amp;lt; ------- o   This is one of the reasons why it is so disturbing when we meet an older person who is still consumed by selfishness and vanity, and who demands that we see and hear them, rather than the other way around. They may be older than us, but through such behaviour we see that they are no more mature. Often in cases like this, we must become the adult, sacrificing &lt;i&gt;our&lt;/i&gt; self so that &lt;i&gt;theirs&lt;/i&gt; is satisfied. An old person like this has ducked their duties and cannot rightly be seen as an elder. They are frozen in time, perpetually immature.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can we hope for a mature and wise society if our grown-ups refuse to grow up?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;i&gt;I will speak about others, but I will not expect or demand to be spoken about&lt;/i&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In many indigenous cultures, elders are accorded great respect. To be an elder is more than being old; it means being a person who has learned some wisdom from their life experiences, including their mistakes. An elder may be someone who has lived a blameless life of complete integrity, or a recovering alcoholic who knows from personal experience how hard it is to struggle with an addiction, and so can guide others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not everyone old is wise. For some people, aging can simply rigidify longstanding patterns of dysfunction. And some "elders" may be young, blessed with good judgment, compassion and sound sense from an early age.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Groups need elders: people who put the needs of the group first and help keep its balance. We may become elders and gain social power in many constructive ways.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- By Taking on Responsibility and Fulfilling It&lt;br /&gt;- By Helping the Group Function Smoothly&lt;br /&gt;- By Good Judgment&lt;br /&gt;- By Making Mistakes and Acknowledging Them so They Become Part of Group Learning&lt;br /&gt;- By Showing Compassion and Forgiveness&lt;br /&gt;- By Integrity and Upholding Values&lt;br /&gt;- By Bringing Experience, Skills and Training to the Service of the Group&lt;br /&gt;- By Mentoring and Being Mentored&lt;br /&gt;- By Commitment and Time&lt;br /&gt;- By Modeling Good Self-Care&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Starhawk]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.realitysandwich.com/developing_elders"&gt;http://www.realitysandwich.com/developing_elders&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-6703815641240314253?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/6703815641240314253/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/path-of-maturation.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/6703815641240314253'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/6703815641240314253'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/path-of-maturation.html' title='The Path of Maturation'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-PzCJWUx6zgs/Ta7FmYEhvoI/AAAAAAAABRg/qACa6s8zxKE/s72-c/basic-1.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-7179194157421267754</id><published>2011-04-16T19:44:00.010+01:00</published><updated>2011-09-01T10:09:33.820+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Giving and Receiving</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wHjmYIg_sAM/Tan-FF4kgNI/AAAAAAAABRQ/_lx4-e4t-co/s1600/141.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 302px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wHjmYIg_sAM/Tan-FF4kgNI/AAAAAAAABRQ/_lx4-e4t-co/s400/141.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596283375416803538" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The principle of cause and effect is at work everywhere, and somebody has to receive the results of everybody's doings. Every sentence or thought or act has an effect on somebody. If someone has a destructive thought or wish, it has to have an effect on someone. If it doesn't work on someone else, it works back on the person who created it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] There's no need to create any opposing destructive force; that only makes more negative energy and more results and more problems.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have a sense of opposition - that is, if you feel contempt for others - you're in a perfect position to receive their contempt. The idea is not to be a receiver.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You people have such anger and fear and contempt for your so-called criminals that your crime rate goes up and up. Your society has a high crime rate because it is in a perfect position to receive crime. You should be working &lt;i&gt;with&lt;/i&gt; these people, not in opposition to them. The idea is to have contempt for crime, not for people. It's a mistake to think of any group or person as an opponent, because when you do, that's what the group or person will become. It's more useful to think of every other person as another &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; - to think of every individual as a representative of the universe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every person is plugged into the whole works. Nobody is outside it or affects it any less than anyone else. Every person is a model of life, so the true nature of a person is the nature of life. I don't care how low you fall or how high you climb, economically or academically or anything else, you still represent the whole thing. Even the worst criminal in life imprisonment sitting in his cell - the center of him is the same seed, the seed of the whole creation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;["Mad Bear"]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rolling Thunder&lt;/i&gt;, p. 244-5&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-pMUiLL5kYi0/TaoFTKUye5I/AAAAAAAABRY/wyu7doe8RlU/s1600/aikido1.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 286px; height: 220px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-pMUiLL5kYi0/TaoFTKUye5I/AAAAAAAABRY/wyu7doe8RlU/s400/aikido1.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5596291313708465042" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Aikido was created by Morihei Ueshiba (植芝 盛平 Ueshiba Morihei, 14 December 1883–26 April 1969), referred to by some aikido practitioners as Ōsensei ("Great Teacher"). Ueshiba envisioned aikido not only as the synthesis of his martial training, &lt;b&gt;but also an expression of his personal philosophy of universal peace and reconciliation&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Aikido is performed by blending with the motion of the attacker and redirecting the force of the attack rather than opposing it head-on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Today aikido is found all over the world in a number of styles, with broad ranges of interpretation and emphasis. However, they all share techniques learned from Ueshiba and most &lt;b&gt;have concern for the well-being of the attacker&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aikido" target="_blank"&gt;Aikido&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In traditional violent and nonviolent conflict, the goal is to defeat the opponent or frustrate the opponent’s objectives, or to meet one’s own objectives despite the efforts of the opponent to obstruct these.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In satyagraha, by contrast, these are not the goals. “The Satyagrahi’s object is to convert, not to coerce, the wrong-doer.” Success is defined as cooperating with the opponent to meet a just end that the opponent is unwittingly obstructing. The opponent must be converted, at least as far as to stop obstructing the just end, for this cooperation to take place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The essence of Satyagraha is that it seeks to eliminate antagonisms without harming the antagonists themselves, as opposed to violent resistance, which is meant to cause harm to the antagonist. A Satyagrahi therefore does not seek to end or destroy the relationship with the antagonist, but instead seeks to transform or “purify” it to a higher level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A euphemism sometimes used for Satyagraha is that it is a “silent force” or a “soul force” (a term also used by Martin Luther King Jr. during his famous “I Have a Dream” speech). It arms the individual with moral power rather than physical power. Satyagraha is also termed a “universal force,” as it essentially “makes no distinction between kinsmen and strangers, young and old, man and woman, friend and foe.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satyagraha"&gt;Satyagraha&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/10/evil-and-us.html"&gt;Evil and Us&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/09/shadow.html"&gt;Cast No Shadow?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/08/alienation.html"&gt;We're in this together&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-7179194157421267754?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/7179194157421267754/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/giving-and-receiving.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7179194157421267754'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/7179194157421267754'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/giving-and-receiving.html' title='Giving and Receiving'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wHjmYIg_sAM/Tan-FF4kgNI/AAAAAAAABRQ/_lx4-e4t-co/s72-c/141.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-3028865682911839804</id><published>2011-04-08T10:18:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T14:36:47.051Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I: Compass'/><title type='text'>The Sacred Circle</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OwO_ZF0o5fM/TZ7UUfzOD9I/AAAAAAAABQ4/Us_5nb8s4Ck/s1600/Medicine-Wheel-web.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 211px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OwO_ZF0o5fM/TZ7UUfzOD9I/AAAAAAAABQ4/Us_5nb8s4Ck/s400/Medicine-Wheel-web.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593141235839537106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;We cannot all sit on the same side of the Fire. A Council Fire forms a circle, not a line or a square. When we move to the side, we still sit at the Fire with our Brothers and Sisters, but as we move away from one we move toward another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The circle, like the Dream Hoop, brings us ever back to where we start. Any time words of respect and love are spoken, they will return as given. A harsh word runs forever in the circle, eventually vanishing from the wear against itself. Love settles within the Circle, embracing it and thereby lasting forever, turning within itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Medicine Wheel is the circle of life (sometimes referred to as the Sacred Hoop). Starting with birth and continuing through out our lives until death, when we have gone full circle. The Medicine wheel has four Direction, each direction offering it's own lessons, color, and animal guide. There are two paths shown which cross in the center, at which point for me is the heart (for when you work from your heart, you can reach all directions). The path from East to West is the path of spirits, (the Blue Road) the path from South to North is our physical Walk (the Red Road ).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;East&lt;/b&gt; - Beginnings, purity, family, innocence, amazement of Life&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;South&lt;/b&gt; - Youth - passions of life, friendships, self-control&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;West&lt;/b&gt; - Adulthood - solitude, stillness, going inside oneself, reflection&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;North&lt;/b&gt; - Place of the Ancient Ones who have gone over - place of wisdom&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Above&lt;/i&gt; - Freedom of mind, body, spirit&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Below&lt;/i&gt; - Nuturing, Mother, life&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Luther Standing Bear]&lt;br /&gt;Oglala Sioux 1868-1937&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-3028865682911839804?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/3028865682911839804/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/sacred-circle.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3028865682911839804'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3028865682911839804'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/sacred-circle.html' title='The Sacred Circle'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OwO_ZF0o5fM/TZ7UUfzOD9I/AAAAAAAABQ4/Us_5nb8s4Ck/s72-c/Medicine-Wheel-web.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8851327337206865158</id><published>2011-04-07T12:06:00.009+01:00</published><updated>2011-07-01T12:28:12.598+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Familiar Territory</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BMlOW-5gyvk/TZ2_pQBFO4I/AAAAAAAABQQ/X2jClAeg1pY/s1600/IMG_5916.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 270px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BMlOW-5gyvk/TZ2_pQBFO4I/AAAAAAAABQQ/X2jClAeg1pY/s400/IMG_5916.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592837027659070338" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt;Celine&lt;/b&gt;: When you talked earlier about after a few years how a couple would begin to hate each other by anticipating their reactions or getting tired of their mannerisms ... - I think it would be the opposite for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think I can really fall in love when I know everything about someone. The way he's gonna part his hair; which shirt he's gonna wear that day; knowing the exact story he'd tell in a given situation ... I'm sure that's when I know I'm really in love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dialogue from &lt;i&gt;Before Sunrise&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His tribal position was hereditary. His father and fathers before him had been subchiefs of the Shoshone. He knew the vast Shoshone lands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like the typical Indian scout he knew every hill and valley, every river and stream, and the location of all the trees and plants that his people once depended on for food.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Doug Boyd]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rolling Thunder&lt;/i&gt;, p.54&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The universe was a place of wonders, and only habituation, the anaesthesia of the everyday, dulled our sight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salman_rushdie" target="_blank"&gt;Salman Rushdie&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Satanic Verses&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;PC&lt;/b&gt;: What tends to make love disappear for you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;SR&lt;/b&gt;: Excessive habituation ... I think its a loss of mystery - both ways round ... I think to be too well known, and to know too well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salman_rushdie" target="_blank"&gt;Salman Rushdie&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;in conversation with Pamela Connolly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shrink Rap&lt;/i&gt;, Channel 4&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/12/tyranny-of-novelty.html"&gt;The Tyranny of Novelty&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/07/walk-straight-line.html"&gt;Walk a Straight Line&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8851327337206865158?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8851327337206865158/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/familiar-territory.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8851327337206865158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8851327337206865158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/familiar-territory.html' title='Familiar Territory'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BMlOW-5gyvk/TZ2_pQBFO4I/AAAAAAAABQQ/X2jClAeg1pY/s72-c/IMG_5916.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-8124444753858753494</id><published>2011-04-07T11:00:00.014+01:00</published><updated>2011-04-08T11:29:57.934+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Native Wellness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bttLw-YqQZM/TZ7FMA90bMI/AAAAAAAABQw/P5kOoYaECPU/s1600/MedicineWheelsHealingHands.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 221px; height: 224px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bttLw-YqQZM/TZ7FMA90bMI/AAAAAAAABQw/P5kOoYaECPU/s400/MedicineWheelsHealingHands.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593124597449125058" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Native Wellness is not just the absence of disease. It is living life in a circle, embracing the teachings of the old ways, where the individual is in balance with oneself, mind, body, spirit, and emotions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It means living in harmony with oneself, others, the Creator, and with all aspects of one's environment. It is having a sound cultural identity. Illness happens when this harmony or balance is broken.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] As seen from the indigenous perspective, health is synonymous with wholeness. The ultimate source of this a wholeness is the Great Spirit, or Creator, a divine essence of which everything is a part. As such, health is understood only within the context of the whole, with spirituality a primary focus and aspect of the diagnosis and treatment of all afflictions. Health involves the restoration of balance and harmony to body, mind, and spirit, and to relationships with family, community, and nature&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"&lt;a href="http://www.squidoo.com/nativeamericanwellness" target="_blank"&gt;What is Native American Wellness?&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to Native American traditions, balance is a state of being in harmony with the universe. Walking in balance is walking in accordance with the natural way of things, where there is harmony among human, natural, and spiritual systems. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Balance is often referred to as Good Medicine. On the other hand, Bad Medicine is the result of being in a state of dis-ease or disequilibrium. When one is not living harmoniously with self, others, the environment and spirit, illness happens. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thus, healing involves the restoration of balance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] According to traditional Navajo beliefs, being in balance is to be in harmony with the universe. Balance is expressed in the phrase Walk in Beauty.  To Walk in Beauty is to have faith in healing, and to act in accordance with natural and spiritual laws. It is doing the right thing at the right time for the right reason, with the wellbeing of all as the underlying intention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"&lt;a href="http://www.nativeamericanwellness.com/native-wellness.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Native Wellness&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Native American values most pertinent to rehabilitation are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-glhA2YgeuB4/TZ7E4mnLm_I/AAAAAAAABQo/MH3aqvFtjmU/s1600/MedicineWheel.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 222px; height: 307px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-glhA2YgeuB4/TZ7E4mnLm_I/AAAAAAAABQo/MH3aqvFtjmU/s400/MedicineWheel.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593124263957339122" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;(a) Happiness and harmony between and within individuals, the society, and nature;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(b) generosity in sharing of self, resources, and possessions;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(c) transmission of knowledge through an oral tradition;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(d) an orientation to the past which honors tradition, and to the present in taking life as it comes;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(e) a fluidity of lifestyle which is without external constraints other than those voluntarily chosen;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(f) work which is in harmony with the individual and meets present needs;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(g) discrete and respectful communication with little eye contact and an emphasis on listening; and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(h) a universal spirituality which is integral to all life and every lifestyle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Susan D.M. Kelley]&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;a href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0825/is_n2_v58/ai_12874897/" target="_blank"&gt;Traditional Native American Values: Conflict or Concordance in Rehabilitation?&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/03/society-you-need-therapy.html"&gt;Society, you need therapy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/03/nonverbal-communication-among-navajo.html"&gt;Silence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-8124444753858753494?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/8124444753858753494/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/native-rehabilitation.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8124444753858753494'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/8124444753858753494'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/native-rehabilitation.html' title='Native Wellness'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bttLw-YqQZM/TZ7FMA90bMI/AAAAAAAABQw/P5kOoYaECPU/s72-c/MedicineWheelsHealingHands.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-3021760697663824001</id><published>2011-04-05T22:01:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2011-04-22T11:22:10.503+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Revolution Begins at Home</title><content type='html'>You've got to hit 'em where it hurts. Pull your money out of the too-big-to-fail banks ... put it in a hometown bank.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quit flying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Burn as little gasoline as possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Grow your own food.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't spend another dime viewing Hollywood propaganda.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't play their lottery.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wean yourself off professional sport amusements ... they're intended to distract you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Get out of debt and stay﻿ out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These things are a good start - your personal revolution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[katzcradul]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;YouTube comment&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Believe it or not, growing your own food or visiting your local&lt;br /&gt;farmers market is more revolutionary and constructive&lt;br /&gt;than burning down your own city and killing security forces&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] They need us, we don’t need them. That’s the big secret. We get our freedom back as soon as we take back our responsibilities for food, water, security, the monetary system, power, and manufacturing; that is independence. Independence is freedom, freedom is independence. We’ll never be free as long as we depend on the Fortune 500 for our survival.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fixing these problems unfolding overseas starts with fixing the problems in our own backyards. Boycott the globalists, cut off their support, undermine their system, and they lose their ability to commit these atrocities. That will be a real revolution and it can start today. Not burning cities and masked rebels waving flags, but communities no longer dependent and fueling a corrupt system we all know must come to an end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Tony Cartalucci]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"&lt;a href="http://landdestroyer.blogspot.com/2011/02/real-revolution.html"&gt;The Real Revolution&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, give to charities that act &lt;i&gt;locally&lt;/i&gt; as well as to charities that act &lt;i&gt;globally&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-3021760697663824001?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/3021760697663824001/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/youve-got-to-hit-em-where-it-hurts.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3021760697663824001'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/3021760697663824001'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/youve-got-to-hit-em-where-it-hurts.html' title='Revolution Begins at Home'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-466341291433807570</id><published>2011-04-05T21:00:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2011-04-06T12:07:18.316+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Karma Yoga</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IXFsPWYCdN0/TZxJW-cA1II/AAAAAAAABP4/2p_7qLNf-Sg/s1600/krishna_arjuna_conchshells.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 335px; height: 251px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IXFsPWYCdN0/TZxJW-cA1II/AAAAAAAABP4/2p_7qLNf-Sg/s400/krishna_arjuna_conchshells.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592425496353756290" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Karma yoga is described as a way of acting, thinking and willing by which one orients oneself toward realization by acting in accordance with one's duty (dharma) without consideration of personal self-centered desires, likes or dislikes. One acts without being attached to the fruits of one's deeds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the &lt;i&gt;Bhagavad Gita&lt;/i&gt;, Krishna says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Therefore, without being attached to the fruits of activities, one should act as a matter of duty, for by working without attachment one attains the Supreme.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Krishna then goes on to describe how Arjuna should surrender the fruits of his actions (good or bad) to him, Krishna, (as the Supreme Person or avatara):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Therefore, O Arjuna, surrendering all your works unto Me, with full knowledge of Me, without desires for profit, with no claims to proprietorship, and free from lethargy, fight.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Krishna explains that work done without expectations, motives, or anticipation of its outcome purifies one's mind and gradually makes an individual fit to see the value of reason. He states that it is not necessary to remain in external solitude, or remain actionless, in order to practice a spiritual life, since the state of action or inaction is primarily determined in the mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In order to achieve perfection of life, Krishna explains that it is important to control all mental desires and tendencies to enjoy pleasures of the senses. The practice of karma yoga in daily life makes an individual fit through action, meditation and devotion to sharpen his reasoning, develop the intuitive power of acquiring knowledge, and to transcend the mind itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma_yoga" target="_blank"&gt;Karma Yoga&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-466341291433807570?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/466341291433807570/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/karma-yoga.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/466341291433807570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/466341291433807570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/karma-yoga.html' title='Karma Yoga'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IXFsPWYCdN0/TZxJW-cA1II/AAAAAAAABP4/2p_7qLNf-Sg/s72-c/krishna_arjuna_conchshells.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-2541755938687022313</id><published>2011-04-04T12:34:00.023+01:00</published><updated>2011-11-28T15:36:32.047Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Games'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Postmodernism'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Distance'/><title type='text'>The Real Thing</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yJJ6GKAcaXk/TZmvEq9s4OI/AAAAAAAABPA/cuGqZE7wCBg/s1600/2713647811_a625f58371.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 307px; height: 343px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yJJ6GKAcaXk/TZmvEq9s4OI/AAAAAAAABPA/cuGqZE7wCBg/s400/2713647811_a625f58371.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591692907144601826" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In the West, we tend to live our lives at one remove from reality, relying on images and concepts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As Tashi Rabgyas said after spending a few months in England, "It's amazing how indirect everything is here. They write about the beauty of nature, they talk about it, and everywhere there are potted plants and plastic plants, and pictures of trees on the wall. And all the time television programs about nature. But they don't ever seem to have contact with the real thing."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helena_Norberg-Hodge" target="_blank"&gt;Helena Norberg-Hodge&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ancient Futures: Learning From Ladakh&lt;/i&gt;, p.190&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then came the age of technology. &lt;b&gt;In the eyes of Indians, white Americans became interested only in the shadows of things and strove to ignore and even deny the realities behind them&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many researchers and historians have published accounts of American Indians that told of impressive feats and healing techniques, yet contemporary professionals seemed afraid such accounts might contradict "modern science."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The dominant attitude was an insistence that modern methods and views had to be superior to the past, and Indians were prosecuted for their practices, for performing healings, religious rituals and sacred dances.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Modern America had new ideas of religion - popular Sunday morning activity, convenient source of social virtue - but when religion pretended to deal with facts about the universe it became a threat to modern science.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Doug Boyd]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rolling Thunder&lt;/i&gt;, p.59&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GNQKgUqsX0s/TZoZ86Y8SgI/AAAAAAAABPw/bGBjRH6M8UU/s1600/bostonL.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 332px; height: 323px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GNQKgUqsX0s/TZoZ86Y8SgI/AAAAAAAABPw/bGBjRH6M8UU/s400/bostonL.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591810421590608386" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Debord traces the development of a modern society in which authentic social life has been replaced with its representation: "All that was once directly lived has become mere representation." Debord argues that the history of social life can be understood as "the decline of being into having, and having into merely appearing." This condition, according to Debord, is the "historical moment at which the commodity completes its colonization of social life."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the term spectacle, Debord defines the system that is a confluence of advanced capitalism, the mass media, and the types of governments who favor those phenomena. "... the spectacle, taken in the limited sense of "mass media" which are its most glaring superficial manifestation...". The spectacle is the inverted image of society in which relations between commodities have supplanted relations between people, in which "passive identification with the spectacle supplants genuine activity". "The spectacle is not a collection of images," Debord writes. "rather, it is a social relationship between people that is mediated by images."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Society_of_the_Spectacle"&gt;Society of the Spectacle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rA7XWsvOb7I/TZzno2uE7kI/AAAAAAAABQA/wJvDrxEd2GU/s1600/Pyramid-logo.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 276px; height: 269px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rA7XWsvOb7I/TZzno2uE7kI/AAAAAAAABQA/wJvDrxEd2GU/s400/Pyramid-logo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592599526356872770" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It has been shown that concepts borrow their material from knowledge of perception, and that therefore the whole structure of our world of thought rests on the world of perceptions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It must therefore be possible for us to go back from every concept, even if through intermediate stages, to the perceptions from which it has itself been directly drawn, or from which have been drawn the concepts of which it is in turn an abstraction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, it must be possible for us to verify the concept with perceptions that stand to abstractions in the relation of examples. &lt;b&gt;Therefore these perceptions furnish us with the real content of all our thinking, and wherever they are missing we have had in our heads not concepts but mere words&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Actually all truth and all wisdom ultimately lie in &lt;i&gt;perception&lt;/i&gt;; but unfortunately perception cannot be either retained or communicated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...] Therefore, as a rule, the man of the world cannot impart his accumulated truth and wisdom, but only practice it. He rightly comprehends everything that occurs, and decides what is conformable thereto.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That books do not take the place of experience, and that learning is no substitute for genius, are two kindred phenomena; their common ground is that the abstract can never take the place of the perceptive. Therefore books do not take the place of experience, because &lt;i&gt;concepts&lt;/i&gt; always remain &lt;i&gt;universal&lt;/i&gt;, and so do not reach down to the particular; yet it is precisely the particular that has to be dealt with in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition to this is the fact that all concepts are abstracted &lt;i&gt;from&lt;/i&gt; the particular and perceptive of experience [...]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wisdom proper is something intuitive, not something abstract. It does not consist in principles and ideas which a person carries round ready in his head, as results of his own or others' investigation; it is the whole way in which the world presents itself in his head.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schopenhauer" target="_blank"&gt;Arthur Schopenhauer&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The World as Will and Representation, Volume II&lt;/i&gt;, p.71, 74-5&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rolling Thunder had explained at Council Grove that his training was experiential. In his first conversation with me he said that truth cannot be expressed verbally, that it can only be experienced [...]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"[...] You can't just sit down and talk about the truth. It doesn't work that way. You have to live it and be part of it and you might get to know it. I say you &lt;i&gt;might&lt;/i&gt;. And it's slow and gradual and it don't come easy [...]"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Doug Boyd]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rolling Thunder&lt;/i&gt;, p.37, 71&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XdlvyxQRK7k/TcJrcxBslNI/AAAAAAAABSg/lurj_JQWUQA/s1600/LadyGaga06PR110311.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 294px; height: 294px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XdlvyxQRK7k/TcJrcxBslNI/AAAAAAAABSg/lurj_JQWUQA/s400/LadyGaga06PR110311.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5603159028343280850" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Wow, so interesting to read this about Lady Gaga. I see her as the exact  opposite of Ammachi, as the epitome of Kali Yuga, the dark mother, a  post-modern Madonna accelerating Time Wave Zero with her cut up pastiche  videos that flash image, image, image towards the breaking point of  narrative and meaning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I see her as the goddess of Hubbert’s Peak,  epitomizing pop culture morphed into its final-last-gasp-stage attempt  at meaning making before the entire material culture we live in  collapses. I see an emaciated woman that mistakes fashion for femininity  as she dwindles away. I see spectacle without substance, a consumable  product of the Kali Yuga age.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Poeting]&lt;br /&gt;Comment on article &lt;i&gt;'&lt;a href="http://www.realitysandwich.com/lady_gaga_visionary_rebirth_divine_mother_monster" target="_blank"&gt;Lada Gaga: The Visionary Rebirth of the Divine Mother Monster&lt;/a&gt;'&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You walk into the room&lt;br /&gt;With your pencil in your hand&lt;br /&gt;You see somebody naked&lt;br /&gt;And you say, "Who is that man?"&lt;br /&gt;You try so hard&lt;br /&gt;But you don't understand&lt;br /&gt;Just what you'll say&lt;br /&gt;When you get home&lt;br /&gt;Because something is happening here&lt;br /&gt;But you don't know what it is&lt;br /&gt;Do you, Mister Jones&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You raise up your head&lt;br /&gt;And you ask, "Is this where it is?"&lt;br /&gt;And somebody points to you and says&lt;br /&gt;"It's his"&lt;br /&gt;And you say, "What's mine?"&lt;br /&gt;And somebody else says, "Where what is?"&lt;br /&gt;And you say, "Oh my God&lt;br /&gt;Am I here all alone?"&lt;br /&gt;Because something is happening here&lt;br /&gt;But you don't know what it is&lt;br /&gt;Do you, Mister Jones&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[...]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You've been through all of&lt;br /&gt;F. Scott Fitzgerald's books&lt;br /&gt;You're very well read&lt;br /&gt;It's well known&lt;br /&gt;Because something is happening here&lt;br /&gt;But you don't know what it is&lt;br /&gt;Do you, Mister Jones&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_dylan" target="_blank"&gt;Bob Dylan&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;'Ballad of a Thin Man'&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/03/frayed-edges.html"&gt;Wild Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/03/step-toward-madness.html"&gt;Step toward madness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/10/playing-art-game-from-to-eric-berne.html"&gt;Playing the Art Game | Eric Berne: Awareness, Spontaneity &amp;amp; Intimacy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/04/spontaneous-intimate-and-aware.html"&gt;Spontaneous, Intimate and Aware!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/08/living-in-post-modern.html"&gt;Life Amongst the Rubble&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2010/06/4.html"&gt;Leaving the Vessel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/12/art-from-distance.html"&gt;Safe Distance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/01/facing-reality.html"&gt;Facing Reality&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-2541755938687022313?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/2541755938687022313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/real-thing.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2541755938687022313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2541755938687022313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/real-thing.html' title='The Real Thing'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yJJ6GKAcaXk/TZmvEq9s4OI/AAAAAAAABPA/cuGqZE7wCBg/s72-c/2713647811_a625f58371.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-2802288233271234194</id><published>2011-04-04T11:26:00.009+01:00</published><updated>2011-04-04T13:33:45.706+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Community'/><title type='text'>Close Enough to Touch</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YM1_m9HIUxE/TZmjlqIwzqI/AAAAAAAABOw/z2slzszoQaw/s1600/zones.png"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 283px; height: 283px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YM1_m9HIUxE/TZmjlqIwzqI/AAAAAAAABOw/z2slzszoQaw/s400/zones.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591680279718710946" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;[...] the more time I spent in Ladakh, the more I came to realize the importance of scale. At first, I sought to explain the Ladakhis' laughter and absence of anger or stress in terms of their values and religion. These did, no doubt, play an important role. But gradually I became aware that the external structures shaping the society, scale in particular, were just as important. They had a profound effect on the individual and in turn reinforced his or her beliefs and values.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since villages are rarely larger than a hundred houses, the scale of life is such that people can directly experience their mutual interdependence. They have an overview and can comprehend the structures and networks of which they are a part, seeing the effects of their actions and thus feeling a sense of responsibility. And because their actions are more visible to others, they are more easily held accountable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Economic and political interactions are almost always face to face; buyer and seller have a personal connection, a connection that discourages carelessness or deceit. As a result, corruption or abuse of power is very rare.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Smaller scale also limits the amount of power vested in one individual. What a difference between the president of a nation-state and the &lt;i&gt;goba&lt;/i&gt; in a Ladakhi village; one has power over several millions of people whom he will never meet and who will never have the opportunity to speak to him; the other coordinates the affairs of a few hundred people whom he knows intimately, and who interact with him on a daily basis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the traditional Ladakhi village, people have much control over their own lives. To a very great extent they make their own decisions rather than being at the mercy of faraway, inflexible bureaucracies and fluctuating markets. The human scale allows for spontaneous decision making and action based on the needs of the particular context. There is no need for rigid legislation; instead, each situation brings forth a new response.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helena_Norberg-Hodge" target="_blank"&gt;Helena Norberg-Hodge&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ancient Futures: Learning From Ladakh&lt;/i&gt;, p.50-1&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-2802288233271234194?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/2802288233271234194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/close-enough-to-touch.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2802288233271234194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/2802288233271234194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/04/close-enough-to-touch.html' title='Close Enough to Touch'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YM1_m9HIUxE/TZmjlqIwzqI/AAAAAAAABOw/z2slzszoQaw/s72-c/zones.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2497333598465035059.post-6170632980740160146</id><published>2011-03-27T22:20:00.011+01:00</published><updated>2011-11-28T15:47:41.584Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I: Jigsaw'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Devotion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Community'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Individual/Whole'/><title type='text'>Knowing Your Place</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JOq9sSr14js/TZm4xbC3qBI/AAAAAAAABPQ/V-crsp-hWv0/s1600/Jigsaw-Puzzle.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 336px; height: 252px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JOq9sSr14js/TZm4xbC3qBI/AAAAAAAABPQ/V-crsp-hWv0/s400/Jigsaw-Puzzle.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591703571570075666" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Decentralization is a prerequisite for the rekindling of community in Western society. &lt;b&gt;Mobility erodes community, but as we put down roots and feel attachment to a place, our human relationships deepen, become more secure, and - as they continue over time - more reliable&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The broader sense of self in traditional Ladakhi society contrasts with the individualism of Western culture. A Ladakhi's identity is to a great extent molded by close bonds with other people, and is reinforced by the Buddhist emphasis on interconnectedness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People are supported in a network of relationships that spread in concentric circles around them - family, farm, neighbourhood, village. In the West we pride ourselves on our individualism, but sometimes individualism is a euphemism for isolation. We tend to believe that a person should be completely self-sufficient, that he or she should not need anybody else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OBvCl5Il6_U/TZm5IaTdH5I/AAAAAAAABPY/aotvlmSwUcw/s1600/images.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 184px; height: 274px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OBvCl5Il6_U/TZm5IaTdH5I/AAAAAAAABPY/aotvlmSwUcw/s400/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591703966508195730" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The closely knit relationships in Ladakh seem liberating rather than oppressive, and have forced me to reconsider the whole concept of freedom. This is not as surprising as it might appear. Psychological research is verifying the importance of intimate, reliable, and lasting relations with others in creating a positive self-image. We are beginning to recognize how this in turn is the foundation for healthy development.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ladakhis score very highly in terms of self-image. It is not something conscious; it is perhaps closer to a total absence of self-doubt, a profound sense of security. This inner security breeds tolerance and an acceptance of others with all their differences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helena_Norberg-Hodge" target="_blank"&gt;Helena Norberg-Hodge&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ancient Futures: Learning From Ladakh&lt;/i&gt;, p.186-7&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-P90BHqCnztI/TZm52VnK6FI/AAAAAAAABPo/S2kWIrK7c9c/s1600/jigsaw-piece.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 239px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-P90BHqCnztI/TZm52VnK6FI/AAAAAAAABPo/S2kWIrK7c9c/s400/jigsaw-piece.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5591704755522693202" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I was with about fifteen Ladakhis and two students from Calcutta on the back of a truck taking us along the bumpy and dusty road from Zanskar. As the journey went on, the students became restless and uncomfortable and began pushing at a middle-aged Ladakhi who had made a seat for himself out of a sack of vegetables.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before long, the older man stood up so that the students - who were about twenty years younger than him - could sit down. When, after about two hours, we stopped for a rest, the students indicated to the Ladakhi that they wanted him to fetch water for them; he fetched the water. They then more or less ordered him to make a fire and boil tea for them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was effectively being treated as a servant - almost certainly for the first time in his life. Yet there was nothing remotely servile in his behaviour; he merely did what was asked of him as he might for a friend - without obsequiousness and with no loss of dignity. I was fuming, but he and the other Ladakhis, far from being angered or embarrassed by the way he was being treated, found it all amusing and nothing more. &lt;b&gt;The old man was so relaxed about who he was that he had no need to prove himself&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have never met people who seem so healthy emotionally, so secure, as the Ladakhis. The reasons are, of course, complex and spring from a whole way of life and world view. But I am sure that the most important factor is the sense that you are part of something much larger than yourself, that you are inextricably connected to others and to your surroundings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helena_Norberg-Hodge" target="_blank"&gt;Helena Norberg-Hodge&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ancient Futures: Learning From Ladakh&lt;/i&gt;, p.84-5&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;............................................................................................................................................................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;....................&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related posts:-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/07/familiar-story-carry-each-other.html"&gt;A Familiar Story | Carry Each Other&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2008/08/community-morals-and-codes.html"&gt;On the Importance of Community | Morals and Codes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2009/01/towards-happiness.html"&gt;Looking Out, Looking Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2497333598465035059-6170632980740160146?l=www.foreverbecoming.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/feeds/6170632980740160146/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/03/nothing-to-prove.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/6170632980740160146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2497333598465035059/posts/default/6170632980740160146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.foreverbecoming.com/2011/03/nothing-to-prove.html' title='Knowing Your Place'/><author><name>Forever Becoming</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JOq9sSr14js/TZm4xbC3qBI/AAAAAAAABPQ/V-crsp-hWv0/s72-c/Jigsaw-Puzzle.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
