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Some more thoughts on carrying


And conversation: we may often betray ourselves when trying to communicate through speech. We often don't have the time to think things through as much as we'd like, and the temporal demands of conversation may not allow for the precaution of an internal proof-reader. With this in mind, we may end up communicating poorly what it is we intend to get across, or even communicating something else entirely.

Carrying in this instance would be a kind of pardoning by the other, a filling-in of your gaps and an active searching for your intentions. In carrying you, they would do their best to understand what it is you are trying to communicate. The opposite would be to purposefully misunderstand or obfuscate your intentions.

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